Duping - When they aren't duping

i am having an issue with players being booted or "Trying to dupe" when they are just putting items in or taking them out... It happened randomly and i have no way to track it... It even happened to my son...

I would like an option to turn the feature that boots them for duping ... a notification in console that says "hey this looks like duping" would be fine... maybe some way to track what items they are putting in and taking out