So, for example, if he knows very clearly that dating sites break your heart but still continues to use them then you may have a big issue to resolve. He didn't need to use the account though. The cheeky sod has been moaning about feeling tired - I thought he couldn't sleep due to work stress. Give them a try. For these men it's a fantasy - just that and only that. I remember being on my dh's MySpace account years ago and it had an ad for 'meet chubby girls in your area now. He knows I don't mind him looking at porn, but this is one step too far - even if it is for an ego boost. He has really made an effort to prove he's stopped. I don't think people should put up with it and am not saying it's 'normal' to spend time online with other women and neglecting your partner. I get targeted ads which are based on stuff I've looked at online clothes, sports gear ; I also get facebook ads which seem to be targeted at 40s female demographic-type eg hair, makeup, cosmetic procedures. There is a user name and password for the account though and he has opened a special folder for emails from the site when I think if he was not interested he would just press delete. But many, many more don't. Hurtful that he would prefer not to say whether he has a wife or children. You seem to also be blaming yourself which is not a good thing, it is not your fault that your Husband felt the need to sign up to this site. This is the first time I have told friends what he has done and I think that says a lot in itself. My first thought is are they married and lying. It is a very tricky situation given your circumstances - but do you feel you can just carry on 'as normal' Not that there is any excuse for this but if I my husband is always on dating sites in this situation I would have to clear the air and know where I stood. Perhaps what matters most is that you each understand and believe each other's position on this. And it was bloody hard to remove his profile too hence I found out about it. It's what he's written hurts more. Feel sick to the stomach and can't believe this is happening. You took it all out and put it to paper and now the paper is destroyed there is no memory so nothing to say.
The internet makes everything so easy to access, and there's every chance he was just having a sneaky look - which isn't exactly honourable, I know, but doesn't make somebody a cheating moster either. Looks like I'll be getting a divorce for Christmas. I think you need to keep calm and try and see if you can find anything else. He says he is not pursuing other women and from what I can tell he is not but he is still advertising himself as available fro no strings fun and maybe I am mad, but I find that offensive to me and my children. Would he agree to some counselling if he's not too good at talking things through with you?
Ive never heard of a website registering someone via a competition? I'm sure when I mention it it will get turned on me somehow that I'm not good enough. Just ask him, and check his history if you want for extra reassurance.
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So, for example, if he knows very clearly that dating sites break your heart but still continues to use them then you may have a big issue to resolve. He didn't need to use the account though. The cheeky sod has been moaning about feeling tired - I thought he couldn't sleep due to work stress. Give them a try. For these men it's a fantasy - just that and only that. I remember being on my dh's MySpace account years ago and it had an ad for 'meet chubby girls in your area now. He knows I don't mind him looking at porn, but this is one step too far - even if it is for an ego boost. He has really made an effort to prove he's stopped. I don't think people should put up with it and am not saying it's 'normal' to spend time online with other women and neglecting your partner. I get targeted ads which are based on stuff I've looked at online clothes, sports gear ; I also get facebook ads which seem to be targeted at 40s female demographic-type eg hair, makeup, cosmetic procedures. There is a user name and password for the account though and he has opened a special folder for emails from the site when I think if he was not interested he would just press delete. But many, many more don't. Hurtful that he would prefer not to say whether he has a wife or children. You seem to also be blaming yourself which is not a good thing, it is not your fault that your Husband felt the need to sign up to this site. This is the first time I have told friends what he has done and I think that says a lot in itself. My first thought is are they married and lying. It is a very tricky situation given your circumstances - but do you feel you can just carry on 'as normal' Not that there is any excuse for this but if I my husband is always on dating sites in this situation I would have to clear the air and know where I stood. Perhaps what matters most is that you each understand and believe each other's position on this. And it was bloody hard to remove his profile too hence I found out about it. It's what he's written hurts more. Feel sick to the stomach and can't believe this is happening. You took it all out and put it to paper and now the paper is destroyed there is no memory so nothing to say. The internet makes everything so easy to access, and there's every chance he was just having a sneaky look - which isn't exactly honourable, I know, but doesn't make somebody a cheating moster either. Looks like I'll be getting a divorce for Christmas. I think you need to keep calm and try and see if you can find anything else. He says he is not pursuing other women and from what I can tell he is not but he is still advertising himself as available fro no strings fun and maybe I am mad, but I find that offensive to me and my children. Would he agree to some counselling if he's not too good at talking things through with you? Ive never heard of a website registering someone via a competition? I'm sure when I mention it it will get turned on me somehow that I'm not good enough. Just ask him, and check his history if you want for extra reassurance.