complicated
Ok so here i am...never thought i would do this...yet its an attempt to find a sollution....so i love someone and that person loves me as well... the problem is the person is married and has tons of responsibilities...i know it is ethically incorrect to love someone who is already committed...that is something we know and both of us accept it as well... but both of us are hopelessly in live with each other...we have even tried to part our ways but that has caused intense emotional distress for both of us...we tried being in just friends zone as well...but that did not work as well...as wrong as it all sounds...the bottom line is the emotions for each has come naturally and we tried keeping it aside for a long time and also tried to cut each other off from our lives...and honestly today after all this when we say that we love each other we dont experience the guilt...all we experience is a concern and worry for our future...as that person is married and has two kids..we have completely rejected the option of breaking the marriage...the situation of the marriage is such that it has been on and off good and bad like every other normal marriage or relationship...no one is to be blamed....i know all this might sound very unethical and inappropriate from a third persons point of view..i know it is termed as cheating as well...but all my mind says is even if we do not keep any contact with each and try harder to keep ourselves away from each other...will we not be cheating ourselves? because after trying this for nice three years both of us have come to a conclusion that the emotional bond that we share cant be replaced by anything else....given our situation today we know everything about each other and we are extremely honest about everything...we accepted our situations...and we know that may be we will never have a future together...but given the fact we also know we will be like walking dead once we will have to part our ways...this turmoil of future concerns is dragging us down..we both feel disturbed..do you have any solution?
solution like cutting each other off being just good friends denying we love each other giving ourselves enough time to come out of this situation and feel sunsidised emotions breaking the marriage is noway a sollution as we dont want the kids to suffer
all this has been thought upon and tried...
do you have a solution beyond dis?
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