(I'm not sure the best venue for this suggestion. If it's the mailinglist or other.)
While auditing my code, I realized that it can be tricky to understand what it going on in a relationship, as much functionality is controlled by kwargs.
Would it possibly be useful to newcomers if there were aliases for relationship and backref?
basically the idea would be something like:
this way, usage of "uselist=False" doesn't get obscured in a list of kwargs